In this insightful exploration of love, we delve into the phenomenon of the “avoidant discard,” where one partner suddenly pulls away just as things start to get serious. This heartbreaking moment can leave many feeling erased and confused. But why does it happen?
The video discusses how such dismissals often reflect the deeper fears of the partner who feels threatened by love. It emphasizes that being discarded is not a reflection of our worth but rather a sign of the discarder’s emotional struggles, often rooted in childhood experiences of lack or neglect.
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The narrative beautifully illustrates how joy and celebration should accompany love, but fears stemming from past trauma can obscure this experience, making some feel undeserving of care and kindness.
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